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When You’ve Got Non-Speak Like “It is what it is”, You’ve Got An Ambiguous Relationship That You Need To FLUSH!

When You’ve Got Non-Speak Like “It is what it is”, You’ve Got An Ambiguous Relationship That You Need To FLUSH!

by NATALIE | Dating

Recently I joked on Facebook about how a Mr Unavailable kept saying “It is what it is” in a conversation where he’d asked me to explain why his ex wouldn’t speak to him anymore. Incidentally, I told him that I imagined that it was the secret...
Narcissistic Harem’s In A Nutshell – Why it’s time to stop envying the ex and various hanger-on’s

Narcissistic Harem’s In A Nutshell – Why it’s time to stop envying the ex and various hanger-on’s

by NATALIE | Healing the Past

Many a reader has been left perplexed and even feeling rejected because they’re not treated ‘as good’ as a partner’s ex or their various hangers-on’s that stroke their ego. In turn, they end up devoting their energy to seeking a rather...

Stop The ASSumptions: 28 Dodgy Reasons People Give For Choosing Someone For A Relationship

by NATALIE | Self

When readers share their reasons for being in love with someone or why they won’t leave, or they explain what attracts them to somebody, sometimes I’m genuinely perplexed. Here are just some of the most common reasons: 1. They go to church. But do they go...

Mr Unavailables and Assclowns: Shedding Crocodile Tears Part One

by NATALIE | Dating

I recently wrote about how the Fallback Girl is the woman that cried wolf because Mr Unavailable realises that whatever noises she makes, they’re empty threats because things don’t change, which is why No Contact often has to be used to demonstrate that it...

Recognising Things About Yourself In the Man You Profess to Love Part 2

by NATALIE | Healing the Past

In a continuation from part 1, I explain what the assclown archetypes of controllers, liars, manchildren, and assclowns suggests about your own character and relationship habits: What does being with a Controller say about you? If you’ve found yourself with a...
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