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“Why aren’t I enough… for your crumbs?” When you wonder why you weren’t enough, even though what was (or wasn’t) on offer sucked

“Why aren’t I enough… for your crumbs?” When you wonder why you weren’t enough, even though what was (or wasn’t) on offer sucked

by NATALIE | Healing the Past

The difficultly with compromising ourselves in order to have a ‘some crumbs relationship’ rather than ‘no crumbs at all’ is that when the inevitable happens and we end up unhappy and/or things come to an end, we wonder why we weren’t...
The Quality of Our Relationships *Matter*. Forget Forced, Go Organic

The Quality of Our Relationships *Matter*. Forget Forced, Go Organic

by NATALIE | Relationships

The quality of our relationships romantic and otherwise matter. A lot of the issues that we come up against when we struggle with dating and forging healthy relationships are rooted in essentially attempting to create ‘quality’ relationships even though...

Getting Committed About Commitment: There’s No Such Thing As a Decision-Free Lifestyle

by NATALIE | Self

Decision-making and decision sticking issues means commitment problems. What we don’t realise when we keep our options open, when we engage in comparison, when we question the hell out of the decision that we’ve made, or somebody says something and we...
When You’ve Got Non-Speak Like “It is what it is”, You’ve Got An Ambiguous Relationship That You Need To FLUSH!

When You’ve Got Non-Speak Like “It is what it is”, You’ve Got An Ambiguous Relationship That You Need To FLUSH!

by NATALIE | Dating

Recently I joked on Facebook about how a Mr Unavailable kept saying “It is what it is” in a conversation where he’d asked me to explain why his ex wouldn’t speak to him anymore. Incidentally, I told him that I imagined that it was the secret...

Why Unhealthy Relationships Are the Equivalent of a Power Struggle

by NATALIE | Relationships

Listening to a reader explain their tumultuous involvement with their on again/off-again boyfriend recently, I was struck by the obvious power struggle that they both seem oblivious to. Each one keeps returning, leaving, or promising and then passive aggressively...
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