Guest Post: Dating Etiquette & Gender Roles

Well women, we’ve won the right to vote, we’ve won the right to wear trousers, we’ve even won the right to equal pay for equal work.Well, at least in the U.S. of A. we have. But along with all of these “rights” have we also won the right...

Guest Post: Dating Hiatus, A Status Report

As you may recall, back in February I wrote this column coming out as a jerkaholic and vowed to go on a dating hiatus. I have been on a dating hiatus. Pretty much. Well, I haven’t been on any official dates… However, I must admit that my life hasn’t...

Guest Post: Get A Life!

Why should my column on Baggage Reclaim be any different than my blog? I’m addicted to leaving cliffhangers. I will get to the final part of ‘How NYM Discovered Great Sex’ but I must first address a sickening epidemic among single women. Because I...

Guest Post – The Ghosts Of Dating Past

This week I had planned to post Part VI of “How NYM Discovered Great Sex”. However, after receiving a strange phone call Sunday afternoon, I decided to interrupt the series with a column about a subject that has disturbed me all spring. And forgive me...

Breaking the Pattern

What is it about certain women that makes us fall repeatedly for the same type of man? Mr Bastard, Mr Unavailable, Mr Workaholic, Mr. Fuckwit. I think we’ve all made the mistake at least once. But when is it that we can genuinely say that we are stuck in a rut?...