Breaking Up a Bad Friendship

by | Breakups

When you have a friend, it’s very easy for you to get attached to them and vice versa. Sometimes, the bonds are so strong that it’s hard for your friend to let go, even though you’ve done everything short of overtly telling them that—chick,...

Guest Post: In Retrospect – A Year of Personal Development

by | Self

Another NYM (New York Moments) year is rapidly coming to a close. On Friday at 9:18pm I’ll turn 34. And that, of course, means that there is a whole brand new NYM year to look forward to. Each year prior to my birthday, I like to take stock of my year. What have...

Frienvy – Envying What Your Friend Has

by | Self

According to June’s Cosmopolitan, frienvy is defined as the envious feelings that you get when your friend has what you covet. It is fuelled by your friend achieving success in one area of her life where either you were both equal or she was on a lesser level...

Guest Post: The Importance Of Having A Life

by | Self

A few years ago I was having a conversation with a co-worker who, at the time, was 32 years old, single, and desperately wanted to get married and have children. She was an educated, successful, attractive woman who had been supporting herself in New York City since...