Closure: How to Know When You’re Ready to Move On

by | Breakups

Definition: This is the particular moment when a certain chapter in your dating history is over. It’s the second that you no longer have feelings for your ex and you are ready to move on to ‘bigger and better’ men. I feel that there are two types of...

Recrudesce: Running into Your Ex

by | Breakups

Yep, big word I know. This is the unexpected phone call or casual meeting on the street when you run into one of your previous exes. You can’t freak out, you must remain calm, and handle it with a casual flair that does not betray your jittery emotions....

First Date Commandments

by | Dating

Some guys wonder why they never get a second date. Perhaps it’s because they failed horribly on the First Date…or broke one of the first date commandments. Here it is listed in black and white, so you can study up and never fail on the first date again....

Holiday On Your Own. Go On!

by | Self

A couple of years ago I was worn out after a hectic year which involved graduating, breaking up with my ex fiance, moving twice, changing job and then falling in love with the guy who would become my best friend. I woke up one day in November 2003 and felt exhausted....

Drawing the Line: Cheating is Cheating

by | Boundaries

I overheard a couple of male friends discussing cheating the other day and one of them claimed that when it’s just kissing or oral sex that is involved, it’s not cheating. Say what? There are so many different things that can create the demise of a...