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There’s No Tipping Point of Loving, Giving, & Doing Enough To ‘Win’ People Over

There’s No Tipping Point of Loving, Giving, & Doing Enough To ‘Win’ People Over

by NATALIE | Boundaries

Early on in life, I learned that it’s really important to be and do what people expect or tell you. Through interactions and observations, including where I was praised and where I was hurt, I learned that compliance was vital. I deduced that you get loved,...

Compassion, Empathy, Sympathy, Hurt, Hinting and Kindness – 6 of the most misused words in relationships and the importance of learning their meanings

by NATALIE | Self

It’s often said that communication is critical to successful relationships – it is – but what we often don’t realise is that often when we do communicate with others or convey information about ourselves, we can be frequent users of words that...
Future Faking, Fast Forwarding and Being The Good Girl/Guy – When You’re Too Concerned With How You Look

Future Faking, Fast Forwarding and Being The Good Girl/Guy – When You’re Too Concerned With How You Look

by NATALIE | Dating

I’m currently shrinking Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl for the print version after much flip flapping about its size since I received the first hard copy a couple of months back – it’s quite a task conveying the core message in half the page...

Overcoming Your Fear of Having Standards in Your Relationships

by NATALIE | Boundaries

If you’ve read this blog for even a short while, you’ll know that I stress the importance of having boundaries. These act as your personal electric fence defining what you’re prepared to accept in your interactions. By having boundaries you learn to...

After the Breakup: Hold Tight to Your Self-Respect and Stop Trying to Be Friends With the Ex That Mistreated You!

by NATALIE | Healing the Past

One of the issues frequently discussed and debated in dating and relationships is the whole issue of trying to remain friends with your ex. I’ve written about it so many times over the years, yet I continue to be baffled as to why, particularly with women, we...
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