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The True Purpose of Having Standards: Guiding You, Not Controlling Your Relationships

by NATALIE | Relationships

Something I see a lot of confusion around is the purpose of standards. We decide that we have certain standards, and when people behave in ways that don’t reflect these, we get mad at them. We try to persuade, guilt, or shame them into meeting our standards....

If You Want a Loving Relationship, Don’t Settle for Crumbs

by NATALIE | Relationships

If you keep choosing and engaging at the level of a previous unfulfilling or unhealthy relationship, you’re effectively sending a message to yourself that these relationships are ‘right’ for you. The same goes if you keep insisting that the wrong relationship should...

Resisting Change Leads to the Groundhog Day of Relationship Insanity

by NATALIE | Healing the Past

It’s easy to believe that you’re open to change if you’ve tended to lose yourself in your relationships. All the morphing, blending, and adapting to suit other people’s agendas was really you catering to your beliefs about yourself, love, and relationships. It...
Podcast Ep. 270: Unhealthy Relationships and Knowing When To Fold

Podcast Ep. 270: Unhealthy Relationships and Knowing When To Fold

by NATALIE | Podcast: The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

In this week’s episode of The Baggage Reclaim Sessions, I talk about unhealthy and unhealthy relationships and knowing when to fold even though we might feel very invested. What stops us from stepping away? How does focusing on good points and good times create...
Podcast Ep. 269: Shifting From Shady to Loving Relationships

Podcast Ep. 269: Shifting From Shady to Loving Relationships

by NATALIE | Podcast: The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

I’m excited to finally be able to share the recording of the ‘live show’ from the International Women’s Podcast Festival on June 18th. In it, I share lessons and observations from my journey about love, loving yourself, and not settling for...
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