Compatibility, Your Type, and Common Interests Part 4

Over parts one, two, and three of this series, I’ve explained how compatibility, type, and common interests are three things that can be pretty dangerous when you have been in a number of poor relationships because aside from you not looking at the bigger...

Compatibility, Your Type, and Common Interests Part One

When I reflect on my dating habits, I recognise that I had some pretty twisted ideas about how to forge relationships. I believed I was compatible with most of the Mr Unavailables and assclowns I dated. These men ticked the boxes with good sense of humour, exciting,...
Trading On Your Looks & Sex Appeal Part 3

Trading On Your Looks & Sex Appeal Part 3

  Over the past couple of posts in parts one and two, I have been discussing the issue of trading on your looks and sex appeal and how doing this ends up setting the tone for the type of men you attract and interactions that you have. In part one, I opened with five...
Trading On Your Looks & Sex Appeal Part 1

Trading On Your Looks & Sex Appeal Part 1

In this 3 part post, I want to spend a little time discussing the issue of us, as women, being focused on our appearance because it’s something that frequently gets mentioned in the comments and emails from readers. I thought that the best way to kick things off...

There Is No Such Thing As Out of Your League

If there is a surefire way to knock yourself out of the running with a potential mate, it’s by perceiving yourself to be out of their league, which essentially sends an internal message to yourself that you’re not good enough for them. The very belief that...