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Why Rebound Relationships & ‘Florencing’ Are Like Hospital Stays Or Retreats For The Emotionally Wounded

by NATALIE | Dating

I think it’s safe to say that everyone understands what the term “being on the rebound” means and yet time after time, many of us dare to go where we’ve already gone before and had our fingers and hearts burned, and we inflate our emotional...

If You’re Being What You Think Is a ‘Good’ Girlfriend/Boyfriend, Are You Actually Being You?

by NATALIE | Boundaries

When people are explaining their relationship issues to me or how they’re struggling with a breakup, I often hear something along the lines of, “I tried so hard to be a good girlfriend/boyfriend” or even “I did everything that someone could...

“I can’t believe they’ve changed – What’s wrong with me?”

by NATALIE | Boundaries

A few years back, a longtime couple finally got married after a gazillion years together (OK a couple of decades or so), kids, abuse, affairs, outside kids, and a steady, unrelenting devotion by her that would make your eyes water in disbelief – they say love is...

Are You Being ‘Nice’ & Passive To ‘Win’ a Relationship? Why Losing The Hidden Agenda Will Let You Be You

by NATALIE | Boundaries

A few months back, a friend fumed to me about how she’d fallen out with someone who she’d thought was a friend until they told her that they’d only been doing certain things because they’d expected payback in favours. She’d been under the...

Don’t Let Empathising With Circumstance Turn You Into An Emotional Airbag

by NATALIE | Boundaries

A guy was telling me a story recently about how he’d met a great woman who he could have had a great relationship with but it didn’t work out because basically she wasn’t over her ex. This is a common occurrence and it is very much wrong time, wrong...
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