Does my ex Mr Unavailable or assclown miss me?

There are many questions that burn through our mind when a relationship ends. It may be because he ended it or because you cut contact with him, but many of us get caught up in the futile game of wondering: Does he miss me? or decoded: Does the assclown or Mr...

When your love gets interpreted as desperation

I’ve talked about love many times on this blog and ultimately much of what ties us to someone who we’re in a poor relationship is believing that we love them and trying to convince them that they should love us and give us the relationship and validation...
Personal Happiness: What do you want? Part Three

Personal Happiness: What do you want? Part Three

Over parts one and two of this post, I have explained about how in order to be happy as a result of external factors, we need to look a little closer to home first and be happy with ourselves personally. I also suggested some ways to kickstart getting back in touch...
Personal Happiness: What do you want? Part Two

Personal Happiness: What do you want? Part Two

In part one, I explained why we need to connect with what we truly want and learn to articulate it and stop putting off being happy. Happiness seems to be something we think will come along in the distant future and in the meantime you’ve got to live a life in...
Personal Happiness: What do you want? Part One

Personal Happiness: What do you want? Part One

I was speaking with a reader a few days ago who I’ve coached for the past year and she told me that the moment her mentality started to shift and she refocused herself was when I asked her what she truly wanted. Most women I come across through this blog cannot...