Getting Blinded By Your Principles

Getting Blinded By Your Principles

by | Self

It’s the principle of the matter. Why should they get away with making a mug out of me?It’s the principle! They said that they loved me/would do _______! And I’ll be damned if they get away without delivering. I would never do/say _________ if I...

Reflections: Knowing Your Own Approval

by | Self

On Valentine’s Day, I channeled ‘old me’ to share Reflections: Knowing Your Own Love. This time I explore wanting to be liked…. ********** I want you to like me because I want to like me too. If you like me, then I can see myself through your...
Treat You As You Want & Expect Others To Treat You

Treat You As You Want & Expect Others To Treat You

by | Self

When it comes to improving how we feel and are treated, we tend to prioritise getting others to feel about and treat us in that way before we will do it for ourselves. We’re convinced that we’ll be motivated to feel about and treat us in this way when...

Are You An Over-Giver? People Who Give Too Much

by | Boundaries

Many stories about unhealthy relationships or situations where it’s not mutual but there are attempts to make it mutual and ‘level’ are about one person not knowing when to back off and stop/reduce giving. All of these people end up extremely hurt,...