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Don’t disregard early warning signs or your gut instincts as negative or judgmental – this information is useful!

Don’t disregard early warning signs or your gut instincts as negative or judgmental – this information is useful!

by NATALIE | Boundaries

Due to the nature of my work and in particular my spidey senses and sniffer dog nose for shadiness and assholery, I can pick up on very subtle early warning signs that someone else may construe as me being ‘negative’ or even ‘too sensitive’. For...
Judging Isn’t The Same As Guessing: Why it’s time to stop giving you a hard time for being a bad guesser of character

Judging Isn’t The Same As Guessing: Why it’s time to stop giving you a hard time for being a bad guesser of character

by NATALIE | Self

One of the issues that many people who have felt burned by a relationship experience, especially those where the other party unfolded into something dramatically different to what they’d envisaged or believed, is that sense that due to having misjudged this person,...
For some of us, if we don’t have to hustle, we don’t feel interested

For some of us, if we don’t have to hustle, we don’t feel interested

by NATALIE | Healing the Past

I feel for the men and women of this world who are bagged and tagged as ‘nice’ – a very vanilla term incidentally – and either discarded for not being ‘exciting’ (this is often fear, uncertainty, drama, ambiguity, and anxiety mislabeled...
It’s Not Your Intuition That Misleads You – Evaluate The Reasoning and Knowledge Applied

It’s Not Your Intuition That Misleads You – Evaluate The Reasoning and Knowledge Applied

by NATALIE | Self

I had to go to an event in Marylebone a couple of days ago and something niggled at me about the location and which tube station I should go to (I went to the same place a couple of years ago but it was the day the Christmas lights were turned on so I couldn’t...
If you don’t know or haven’t met each other yet but they’re asking to meet you late at night, it’s not for cocoa and a chat

If you don’t know or haven’t met each other yet but they’re asking to meet you late at night, it’s not for cocoa and a chat

by NATALIE | Dating

Let’s imagine that a perfect stranger you’ve recently become ‘acquainted’ with, asks if they can meet you at 11pm at your place. Note that I use the term ‘acquainted’ loosely as it’s the internet hence it’s almost like...
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