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Excerpt from The Dreamer & the Fantasy Relationship: Is Fantasising Ever Healthy?

Excerpt from The Dreamer & the Fantasy Relationship: Is Fantasising Ever Healthy?

by NATALIE | Healing the Past

Fantasies are useful for exploring ideas – a bit like a mental dummy run. They can enable you to tap into your creativity, examine who you are or ideas about what you want from yourself and your life in the future, sexual desires, and even to work through issues. Some...

If You’re Going To Argue or Tell Someone About Themselves, Don’t Do It By Text or Email

by NATALIE | Boundaries

I have a few rules for myself that keep me out of a lot of trouble, even though some days my last nerve is being worn down and I want to let rip: Even though it’s felt like I have to tape my fingers together at times, I don’t reply in haste (or even at...

What Learning About The Special Effects in Apollo 13 & Titanic Taught Me About Future Faking, Fantasy Relationships & Why We Get Carried Away

by NATALIE | Relationships

Having a browse over a cup of tea, I found myself on the TED site and finally got around to watching a talk. I was drawn (and I have no idea why) to The Art of Creating Awe by Rob Legato who is behind the special effects for films including Titanic and Apollo 13....

Being Assertive Won’t Stop People From Disagreeing With You But You’ve Still Got To Stand Up For You

by NATALIE | Self

I’ve been working on a class about assertiveness for Baggage Reclaim School because communicating your needs and wishes with respect and confidence is a huge part of not only increasing your self-esteem but also ensuring that you represent yourself...

Don’t Typecast Or Pigeonhole Yourself In A Role That Takes You Away From Yourself

by NATALIE | Healing the Past

“If you want to be the girlfriend, the wife, have a relationship, have a future, then you’re playing the wrong role here – you don’t take up the Other Woman role when it’s not what you want and it’s not going to help you get what...
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