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The Long-Shot Mentality – Are you setting yourself faux goals?

by NATALIE | Self

  Many BR readers are perplexed by why someonone would get tangled in a fantasy relationship or persist in being in unavailable relationships. When I wrote You Can Be In Love On Your Own…But a Mutual Relationship Takes Two, the comments and my inbox filled...
The Trouble With Feeling Owed After a Relationship ‘Investment’ Goes Sour

The Trouble With Feeling Owed After a Relationship ‘Investment’ Goes Sour

by NATALIE | Healing the Past

I’ve heard from more than a few readers recently who are feeling resentful after being in a relationship where they feel that they gave and gave and gave and that they got nothing or very little ‘back’. Leaving more than a sour taste in their...
The Dreamer & the Shopper: Have you inadvertently found yourself in a fantasy relationship?

The Dreamer & the Shopper: Have you inadvertently found yourself in a fantasy relationship?

by NATALIE | Relationships

If you’ve ever found yourself struggling to get over a relationship that didn’t get off the ground, was unreciprocated, or was largely virtual, you may not realise that you’ve been involved in a fantasy relationship although you may have uttered the words, “I can’t...
Excerpt from Mr Unavailable & the Fallback Girl: Renovators & Florences

Excerpt from Mr Unavailable & the Fallback Girl: Renovators & Florences

by NATALIE | Relationships

In this excerpt from the new edition of Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl, I explain the very tricky territory of fixing, healing and helping and how your need to be needed and trying to be the solution to problems that aren’t yours to fix, backfire and leave...
Actions Matching Words in a Nutshell: If You Haven’t Got a Match, You Haven’t Got a Healthy Relationship But You Do Have Problems

Actions Matching Words in a Nutshell: If You Haven’t Got a Match, You Haven’t Got a Healthy Relationship But You Do Have Problems

by NATALIE | Relationships

I see so many people practically getting a Ph.d in investigating what someone said but didn’t back up with words, or investing themselves in something that looks like a relationship but the other party has said things to the contrary, that I felt it was time to...
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