From The Other Woman to Happiness

If someone had suggested that I would ever be The Other Woman (OW), I would have laughed them out of town and told them to F off, but somehow I found myself taking up the role with gusto for 18 months. It was without a doubt the most foolish, damaging thing that I...
How To Cope With Being The Other Woman

How To Cope With Being The Other Woman

This post was originally published back in 2006 and had such a huge response I had to take it offline as it was causing problems with the server. It’s now been republished but you can see the updated version here: 1. Have your escape route planned. If you have...

Can Men & Women Just Be Friends?

There is no such thing as a free meal, and, as a woman, I feel there is no such thing as ‘just dinner’ or a man that ‘just wants to get to know [you]’. When a man asks a woman for dinner or her phone number, 99% of the time it means he is sexually...