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Your Situation May Feel ‘Unique’ But Really, It’s Not Unique In Literally Being the Only One of Its Kind

by NATALIE | Boundaries

Readers often stumble across Baggage Reclaim on a quest for answers and possibly while seeking the love equivalent of a ‘Get rick quick scheme’. They’re often confused, wondering what went wrong, what they ‘did’ to ‘make’ the...
You’re Not in Pretty Woman: Do You Believe In the Booty Call ‘Fairy Tale’?

You’re Not in Pretty Woman: Do You Believe In the Booty Call ‘Fairy Tale’?

by NATALIE | Dating

If you’ve stuck like glue to an unhealthy relationship or devoted your energies to upgrading a one-night stand, booty call, Friends With Benefits or ad-hoc fling into a full time, bonafide committed relationship, it’s safe to say that you very much believe...
Pushing Your Mental Flush Handle Lets You Have Better Boundaries

Pushing Your Mental Flush Handle Lets You Have Better Boundaries

by NATALIE | Boundaries

Several weeks back, my friend Twanna told me about how, on a few occasions, she’s been chatted up only to glance down and realise that their wedding band is in their pocket. She was, of course, outraged at the audacity of them. Merry from a few glasses of red...
Understanding Code Red and Amber behaviour in Relationships

Understanding Code Red and Amber behaviour in Relationships

by NATALIE | Boundaries

Following my original post ‘knowing when to bail – red flags’, I realised I need to a deep dive into this subject. When it comes to responding to red flags, time and again, I see that, in these situations, we don’t know what to do and if or when to...
Are You Still Trying To Be The Exception To The Rule? Maybe It’s Time You KNOW The Rule

Are You Still Trying To Be The Exception To The Rule? Maybe It’s Time You KNOW The Rule

by NATALIE | Self

Last year I wrote about when we try to get people to make us the exception to their rule of behaviour, which is in essence the foundation of every relationship where you stay with someone who has shown and told you, whether it’s directly or indirectly, who they...
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