When You’re Not His Type, But He’s With YOU

I recently discussed past relationships and effectively getting over your partner’s ex and received some interesting comments and emails that suggested that I needed to discuss ‘type’. ‘Type’ is a term people bandy around to describe the...

Toxic Type

Recently I’ve listened to lots of single people using the term ‘type’ in conversations that are either used to justify why they keep going with a certain type of person or to justify why they won’t stray away from type and try something...

In Search of Fireworks: Chasing that Special Spark

I was speaking with my mother’s friend recently and she told me a tale of how a woman who had been married for twenty years had left what she described as a nice husband in pursuit of the elusive spark, the fireworks that she felt was missing from her life....

Great Expectations

There’s a common theme to the problems experienced by men and women that are either in relationships, falling out of them, or trying to get into them: expectations. There’s constant talk about relationships: How to get them, how to have them, how to keep...