He’s Just Not That Into Booty Calls?

“It’s hard to have casual sex without getting emotionally involved,” Normally I would attribute these words to a woman, but on this occasion, it is to Ben, someone who claims to be amongst a growing number of men who just aren’t into booty...

Can a Booty Call Grow Into a Relationship?

Recently I’ve been asked by several readers whether a booty call can become so much more. I must say firstly though, if you know that you’re actually a booty call, should you really be asking this question! Anyway… Booty Call: This is when someone...

Casual Sex Between Friends

Ah yes, CSBF. It can save your life, save your sanity, allow you to relax, and seem less desperate. But is it healthy? Let’s investigate a little further. First off, for those of you unfamiliar with the term, CSBF= Casual Sex Between Friends, now on with the...

10 Signs That A Guy Wants You Just For Sex

Note: this post was originally written in November 2006 when the blog’s audience was predominantly women dating men. The advice in this post applies to same-sex relationships as well as women who just want a guy for sex. 1. He tells you. There are a whole lotta lines...

Can I Build a Relationship on Just Sex?

I’m getting asked more questions by readers these days, so I will attempt to answer them publicly on the blog which will also give anyone who thinks they have a suggestion to chime in. Nobody can build a relationship on just sex. In fact, if a relationship is...