Why Don’t We Want the RIGHT Guys?

Most of us know the type of men to stay away from. The Bad Boys, the Mr. Unavailables, the Players, the Momma’s Boys and the like. These are the ones that come to us with an automatic grade A heartbreak label and yet we choose to consort with them anyway. Why is...

What is a Nice Guy?

When we think of nice guys in the dating sense, we tend to think too nice (because that’s bad apparently), boring, unassertive, too compliant, overly agreeable, doesn’t mess us about, isn’t ambiguous about his feelings, dying to settle down, possibly...

Chasing the Bad Boy: Do women thrive on drama?

When we were little girls, playing with our Barbies/Cindy’s, Action Men or even guns, I don’t think any of us looked up with our innocent little eyes and said, ‘Mummy, when I grow up, I want to go out with a bad boy’, yet oddly enough, many a...

Vixen’s Guide to: Dating a Nice Guy

I’ve had my share of Bad Boys but invariably, I’ve always been drawn more consistently to the Nice Guy. There is something about the old school charm, chivalrous ways and polished manners of this type of male that draws me like a moth to a flame. The term...

Bastard Syndrome

Every year, everyone gets hit by various illnesses such as flu, and earlier this year in the UK there was a mumps epidemic hitting the 16-24 age group. There is an ‘illness’ however, that is more prevalent all year around – Bastard Syndrome. I...