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Finding this website and the incredible wisdom of Nat and the bloggers on it, I do consider myself really really really lucky.
Now if only I could say the same about my past relationships and the heartaches that have left footprints on my heart and scars on my soul. To be honest, I’ve probably left a few of those on the hearts and souls of others. The push/pull trap that comes from not loving oneself is hard to overcome…
I needed this so much right now.
Hope this is where I can ask a question. I experienced several of the ghoster traits you described. After 17 years my common law wife brought a female friend who did not know me well for 6 days to play mediator while she moved out. The mediator later told me her reason for being there was to ensure I did not bully or try to talk with my wife. She also told me after the second day it was clear I was not the monster my wife feared and was convinced she was there to ensure ky wife did not have to discuss her leaving with me. The bullying lie was one no one close to us believed. Another reason for her exit was my refusal to pay living expenses. One I did have to prove a lie to family. The day the move was completed she moved in with another man. Before I found this site I thought it was the most bizarre and unbelievable event ever. My question:
Would there be any benefit to getting these articles to her? Would she recognize herself? I assume the chances of her seeing her actions were wrong and trying to right it by giving our relationship anothertry are remote. I also assume I now would not want it anyway