10 Signs That A Guy Wants You Just For Sex

Note: this post was originally written in November 2006 when the blog’s audience was predominantly women dating men. The advice in this post applies to same-sex relationships as well as women who just want a guy for sex. 1. He tells you. There are a whole lotta lines...

Guest Post: Why Can’t We All Just Be Perfect?

One of the subconscious messages that I’ve carried through life is that if I’m not perfect, I’m not loveable or likeable. My gut reaction is to blame my mother. Although she’s probably largely responsible, other factors also contribute....

Letting The Guy Pay on a Date.

I had someone ask me yesterday if she should offer to go halves or pay for the whole dinner for a first date. “Who asked who out?” I asked. “He did.” “And why do you want to pay half or for the whole dinner?” “Well we’re...

Signs That You Are Not Into Him

1. You aren’t yourself around him. Pay attention to how you are around your guy. If you find yourself quieter, more reserved than usual, for instance, it could be a sign of worse things to come. 2. You find yourself telling white lies or omitting information...