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Why Is He Calling Me? What type of vibes am I giving off?

Why Is He Calling Me? What type of vibes am I giving off?

by NATALIE | Breakups

Picture this: Recovering Fallback Girl (woman who loves emotionally unavailable men) home on a Saturday minding her own business and trying to change her ways so that she doesn’t end up repeating her pattern, hears from a Mr unavailable who in the past she has...

Mini Video: Don’t Allow Exes to Keep a Foothold in Your Life or Demote You to Booty Call

by NATALIE | Breakups

Sometimes you have to deal with the awkward situation of an ex who’s trying to be your friend. And I use the term ‘friend’ loosely because the awkwardness indicates that something is off. Whether the seeming friendship is subcode for keeping their...

A Tale of Making The Mistake of Being Friends With An Ex Mr Unavailable (Yes the Fire Still Burns)

by NATALIE | Breakups

I recently talked about when we ‘suck it and see’. This is essentially where we fall off the wagon because we may be stuck and obsessing but are also clear enough to go in with both eyes open and recognise the meaning of the consequences. For some people,...
Suck It and See To Kill Off Curiosity and Get Out of Relationship Groundhog Day

Suck It and See To Kill Off Curiosity and Get Out of Relationship Groundhog Day

by NATALIE | Breakups

By the time I met the boyf, I had accomplished something that a year or so before I hadn’t been entirely sure was a possibility – I was over my ex, the guy with a girlfriend. This was despite us not only working in the same company, sometimes having to work on the...
Should I Give Him A Second Chance? Or a 3rd, 4th, 20th?

Should I Give Him A Second Chance? Or a 3rd, 4th, 20th?

by NATALIE | Breakups

Ah, Valentine’s Day is approaching and much like Christmas, exes will be potentially creeping out of the woodworks. Maybe you’ve been broken up for a while, watched him waltz off with someone else and have been wondering, ‘Why her and not me?’...
So…What is he thinking when he keeps making contact or tries to get back together?

So…What is he thinking when he keeps making contact or tries to get back together?

by NATALIE | Breakups

In another excerpt from my ebook The No Contact Rule, I highlight the age old activity of wondering what he’s thinking. Between adding more meaning to his behaviour and judging things based on your own actions or on those of ‘normal’ people,...
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