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Are You Being Used As A Confidence Booster To Launch Your Ex Into Their Next Relationship?

Are You Being Used As A Confidence Booster To Launch Your Ex Into Their Next Relationship?

by NATALIE | Breakups

Often, when I read stories of exes coming back, proclaiming that they’re sorry and that they want to get back together/can’t live without you, only for them to end up causing you even more pain, often moving onto someone else quickly (or even having them...
No Contact: Why you need to keep your proverbial door closed…even when they try to break it down by any means necessary

No Contact: Why you need to keep your proverbial door closed…even when they try to break it down by any means necessary

by NATALIE | Breakups

Many BR readers are currently going through breakups, which may include No Contact – this is essentially closing your door on the relationship by cutting contact and distancing yourself, so that you have a chance to gain objectivity, break an unhealthy...

When They Come Back Claiming That They’ve Changed…But Have They?

by NATALIE | Breakups

Picture this (adopts Sophia from Golden Girls voice), Dublin, 2000. It’s a few days before Christmas and I’m making my way to the arrivals hall with all of my baggage (literally and figuratively…) after getting off a flight from Miami. My parents...
Dealing With Happy Birthdays and Big Occasions: To Send a Card or Text…Or Not To Send, That Is The Question

Dealing With Happy Birthdays and Big Occasions: To Send a Card or Text…Or Not To Send, That Is The Question

by NATALIE | Breakups

Over the past few months, I’ve found that quite a few readers have felt stuck on a particular dilemma: Whether or not to reach out to an ex on their birthday or for occasions such as Christmas or anniversaries. Should I wish my ex happy Christmas/Holidays?...
Why You Should Imagine Yourself As Cool, Calm, & Confident When You Deal With Awkward Situations Like Bumping Into an Ex

Why You Should Imagine Yourself As Cool, Calm, & Confident When You Deal With Awkward Situations Like Bumping Into an Ex

by NATALIE | Breakups

Our imaginations and mentality have a lot to answer for. When we consider a hypothetical situation and lack confidence in our ability to deal with it and we imagine the worst, we set ourselves up to fail before we’ve even started. Where I see many people shoot...
You Don’t Have To Hate Someone Or Be Out of Love To Break Up

You Don’t Have To Hate Someone Or Be Out of Love To Break Up

by NATALIE | Breakups

Over the years I’ve found that when it comes to making the decision to end a relationship and move on, there’s this misguided belief that you have to 1) hate/dislike someone 2) have no feelings for them or 3) find something wrong with them before you can...
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