The No Contact Rule: The Get Out Plan

The No Contact Rule: The Get Out Plan

It’s day 30 of the 30 Days of Drama Reduction series, and I’ve had an amazing month and a lot of emails from readers telling me their stories and telling how much they have changed even in the past month! Of course, I didn’t squeeze in everything...

Coping with breakup drama in the workplace

It’s surprising the number of women who have been involved in drama filled relationships with men that they work with and I’ve had several requests asking for advice on how to reduce the drama. It is so difficult to suffer a breakup but it’s made all...
Did I chase or scare him away?

Did I chase or scare him away?

One thing women are really good at is self-blame. When we are mistreated, the first thing we do is internalise the problem and wonder what we did to cause it. I keep wondering what I did to scare him off It must be something I did; he was so attentive at first Maybe...