Guest post: The Drama Blame Game

Guest post: The Drama Blame Game

On Day Ten of the 30 Days of Drama Reduction series, Cheekie ponders whether going down the blame route is really the best option…. So…about this here ‘drama’ thing we create for ourselves. I see a lot of comments, blogs, stories etc., about...
Guest post: No More Drama

Guest post: No More Drama

Lisa Q writes… Last week, NML posted an article detailing how we become drama seekers in the first place. Maybe we had an emotionally distant father, suffered from second best syndrome, or were raised by a Drama Seeker. I have to tell you, she scared the living...
Did I chase or scare him away?

Did I chase or scare him away?

One thing women are really good at is self-blame. When we are mistreated, the first thing we do is internalise the problem and wonder what we did to cause it. I keep wondering what I did to scare him off It must be something I did; he was so attentive at first Maybe...